She should fight for her children's sake. The divorce will make a huge impact on her children's future. There will not have a proper family anymore. Tell her to be brave and strong, for her children's sake.
She should make it as difficult as she can, for the man. Tell him, she will not agree to divorce and not move out their family home; if he really wants to do it, he shold satisfy the court with 5 years seperation with evidence, and huge legal fees.
Also, let the wife tell the man, she will make his life miserable even after the divorce. She will demand a lot of money from the man, otherwise he will not be able to see the children. To make him realise, his life will not be happy in the battle ground of two women and three children.
The wife should get all the help she can to get through this, friends and relatives. their help will make a big difference.
These will beat the mistress, because she will wait for 5 years,at the end, he still might not marry her. All she wants is to marry him to come to the UK. I do not think she will wait for 5 years, and bring up her child on her own, with uncertainty. The man may not like her anymore, he could go back to his wife any time in those 5 years, and he might like someone else.
The most important thing is, there must be something left in their marriage. If the marriage has been unbearable for the man, he would have left long time ago. The good and the bad ther have been through are not so easily to be left behind, we are all humans.
My email address is weilinpp@yahoo.com, if the wife needs my help.
She should make it as difficult as she can, for the man. Tell him, she will not agree to divorce and not move out their family home; if he really wants to do it, he shold satisfy the court with 5 years seperation with evidence, and huge legal fees.
Also, let the wife tell the man, she will make his life miserable even after the divorce. She will demand a lot of money from the man, otherwise he will not be able to see the children. To make him realise, his life will not be happy in the battle ground of two women and three children.
The wife should get all the help she can to get through this, friends and relatives. their help will make a big difference.
These will beat the mistress, because she will wait for 5 years,at the end, he still might not marry her. All she wants is to marry him to come to the UK. I do not think she will wait for 5 years, and bring up her child on her own, with uncertainty. The man may not like her anymore, he could go back to his wife any time in those 5 years, and he might like someone else.
The most important thing is, there must be something left in their marriage. If the marriage has been unbearable for the man, he would have left long time ago. The good and the bad ther have been through are not so easily to be left behind, we are all humans.
My email address is weilinpp@yahoo.com, if the wife needs my help.