Shall I give the reference list?

I need some advice.

I’m currently working for an auto company under 10km away from home. Like all other people in auto industry, we are struggling in this economic downturn. A few weeks ago, a HR in health care industry found me and I went for 3 interviews. Company is growing. But pay is down by 10K and mostly, it’s far from home – about 40KM one way on a jammed highway. I have a 10- year- old needs to take care. I asked for flexible hour on the interview. They haven’t given me an answer, but they are now asking for my reference. Can I ask for a conditional offer with detailed term of employment before giving them reference list?

Thanks in advance!

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• 都谈了三次了。 -sigma- ♂ (33 bytes) () 02/10/2009 postreply 12:19:26

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• 每家公司作法不同。 -sigma- ♂ (222 bytes) () 02/10/2009 postreply 13:09:14

• 回复：每家公司作法不同。 -yhyh- ♀ (17 bytes) () 02/10/2009 postreply 13:15:52